I know a lot of people who kill themselves just trying to get better grades or to impress their parents. What is it that drives us to do things for someone else? Why can't we just do things for our selves. Even though this might seem a little selfish it is very true. We should be doing things to make ourselves happy. We shouldn't find great jobs because we want to impress some one. We shouldn't try to get into great colleges just to make our parents love us. They should already love us, and people should be impressed by you for who you are and what you do. But then again if we weren't being pushed all the time we wouldn't get anything done. Our lives would be lived out in the dumps.